I woke up today in what is perceived by many to be a free
country. I can pretty much Do what I
want. At least I can do what I want
within certain prescribed boundaries. I
can’t just go out and steal. I can’t go
out and do treasonous activities. If I
do these things there are certain consequences.
This freedom came at a price. It came at a great price. The parallels to those in pain and what they
can do for themselves have been on my mind today. I see at least 4 that I would like to mention
today.
Decision – Our forefathers spent a good deal of time trying
to work out their issues with the crown.
At some point they made a decision.
We call it the Declaration of Independence. At that point they laid it all on the line
and charted a new course.
People in pain often try a few skirmishes. These include many things for different
people. In my case I took 8-12 aspirin
for about 2 years to deal with the pain that I developed following a hit and
run. I was on the bicycle. The car was bigger. At some point I made a decision to do what I
needed to do to develop a lifestyle to deal with my issue. People in pain need to make this
decision. It often has
consequences. One of the better ones is
decreased pain and often the ability to do activities that were limited by that
pain.
Work – A decision was a good start but work was
required. An army had to be raised. The colonies had to work together. It was a formidable task to go against vastly
superior forces that were better trained.
People who hurt need to work also.
I have had many clients tell me that they are not willing to do anything
that is required in order to get better.
That is why they have insurance.
It is not their fault that they hurt and somebody else better “fix”
them.
These people usually don’t get well. Pain is an output of the brain. It is a message that we need to do something
to change the situation. Apart from a
decision and then active work to deal with the besetting issues there is rarely
resolution. Therapists rarely “fix”
anyone or anything. People need to work
toward resolution. This often means
dealing with habits, environments, and underlying thoughts and attitudes. The Biblical concept of the heart includes
intellect, will, and affections. How
this can be applied to pain will be developed in later posts. I simply want to point out that change in
these areas requires work.
Sacrifice – Our forefathers had to sacrifice tremendously. Many lost all they had. Many lost their lives. Others lost friends and relatives. Those in pain often need to make
sacrifices. The diabetic needs to avoid
sugar. That is hard. Some people need to avoid gluten. Others simply need to spend more time in bed –
that can be hard. Entertainments often
need to be changed. All of this can be
difficult. Rarely does relief from
chronic pain come without some type of lifestyle change that is perceived initially
as a sacrifice.
Recurrence – Our forefathers were not done when the war was
over. It was quickly followed by the War
of 1812. They had to do the same thing
all over again. Those who find relief
from pain often find that it comes back.
They need to keep dealing with the issue. It requires a lifestyle of vigilance. Habitat and Habits may need to change.
Today is a good day to make a decision to deal with your
pain. Let July 4th be a day
of decision to work and sacrifice to make a change in your pain. Keep checking here for help.